
Sexual, physical and emotional abuse affect individuals in a multitude of ways including anxiety, depression, PTSD symptomology (e.g. intrusive thoughts, flashbacks, nightmares, hyperarousal, altered reactivity, dissociation, irritability), distrust of others, struggles to create and maintain relationships, chronic pain, panic attacks, suicidal ideation, struggles with sleep, physical injuries, somatic complaints, low self esteem, struggles to set and maintain boundaries with others, substance abuse, perfectionism and people pleasing behaviors. Sexual abuse can ressult in sexual dysfunction, hypersexuality and avoidance of sexual encounters.
Often individuals that have experienced abuse struggle to take up space and understand that they have a right to use their voice. Individuals that have experienced abuse were not asked for permission- others took their ability to give consent. Therapy allows for the space to connect to these experiences and the things that the individual wanted to say or do. Dissociation is a common response to abuse (e.g. disconnection between the mind and body); the mind often leaves and memories of the experience may be blocked and difficult to access. However, the body may have reactions (e.g. increased anxiety, panic attacks) in relation to stimuli (e.g. smells, tastes, visual cues) that are confusing to the individual.
The experience of manipulation, control, possessiveness, isolation, constant criticism, deflection, gaslighting, verbal attacks, conditional love and/or affection, and minimization of the abuse. These experiences can lead to confusion about what is being experienced. Individuals may question if their experiences are real or imagined.
The experience of aggressive unwanted physical contact such as biting, slapping, punching, hitting, shoving, scratching, kicking, physical restraint, burning, the use of weapons, and throwing objects.
The experience of rape, molestation, coercion to engage in sexual activity, incest, sexual expolitation, trafficking, sexual harassment, child sexual abuse and cyber sexual abuse (e.g. sharing pictures and/or videos without consent or online sexual harassment).
Through therapy, you can achieve a significant reduction in anxiety and depression, experience improved sleep, and build a stronger connection with yourself—leading to higher self-esteem, the ability to set healthy boundaries, and more fulfilling relationships, including your relationship with sexuality.
Milestone Family Counseling provides a confidential, judgment-free environment for trauma recovery. Our Frisco office offers a calm, secure space designed for your comfort. We maintain strict confidentiality and provide flexible scheduling, including evening appointments for your privacy and convenience.
You deserve to live free from the shadows of past abuse. At Milestone Family Counseling in Frisco, we provide the specialized, compassionate care survivors need to reclaim their lives.
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Yes you can. Working through the abuse will help you connect to the experience and heal the wound. However, healing from the wound will result in grief. You will experience periods of anger and sadness, like a pendulum swinging; left and right. Slowly, the swinging will lessen in intensity and will finally pause in the middle. When you reach the point of rest; you will feel at ease and be able to experience sex in a healthy way.
Yes you can. Recognizing what defines abuse is the first step. What may have been “normal” or familiar in the past occurred because of the lack of knowledge. We don’t know what we don’t know.
No but you will be able to recall it without having intense emotional and/or physical reactions.
Yes. A crucial part of healing is the process of relocating the responsibility for the abuse from yourself to the perpetrator, where it truly belongs. Therapy will help you dismantle the false beliefs of guilt and shame, allowing you to see the events clearly and recognize that you were never at fault.
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